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Without trust, there is no relationship. Instead you have a minefield where at any moment, someone might explode. With trust, love can flourish, intimacy can bloom, connection can deepen, and understanding can grow. When trust is present, love has a real chance. If you find yourself in an intimate relationship where you don’t trust theRead more

loneliness overtakes you you wonder how can it be when you are connected to all that is you know it’s true most times you feel it too but then this emptiness descends vacuum-like feeling adrift and alone in a sea of unknown faces somewhere there is a disconnect as you learn to maneuver between yourRead more

For the past two days, we’ve been talking about loving ‘what is’ with regard to a life partner. Here is an example of what that might look like. Tony is Italian and has always dreamed of finding a buxom, curvaceous Italian woman who loves to cook and wants to have a family. Tony loves brunettesRead more

It has been said that out of nothing comes everything; that in the space of nothingness is where all creativity is born.  So what is this nothingness?  Here is one perspective: freedom from anything belonging to nothing lacking definition no words can convey floating in space no reference points no guidance nothing to think, feel,Read more

I enjoyed Wayne Dyer’s post today explaining that people cross your path for a specific act or scene in the play of your life.  Some have brief roles; others have ongoing appearances; and still others have a main part. But no matter how important someone is in Act One of your life, they may orRead more

As we learn to love unconditionally, we may come to a place where it feels like we’ve ‘got it.’  At least until something occurs that challenges us in a new way or pushes a button we thought was long gone. In my experience, there is always another layer where we can love more fully, moreRead more

if life is but a play a mere story to explore then what’s the point and where is god? the divine in all its knowing created this experience to relish, feel and savor the vicissitudes, the flow the dynamic opposites, the emotions and expressions but where in all of this  do we find god? in theRead more

joseph campbell spoke of the push of your existence which to me feels sometimes like a pull or an inner engine stoked with super horsepower to refuse it is inane utterly a waste of time for it is inevitable that i will comply will dive in wholeheartedly and join the thrust, momentum why? because thatRead more

when we first met our souls collided in a song of recognition for we have lived and loved beyond time and space you are so familiar to me that i immediately know your depths even though the details of your life are new and exciting when our hearts connect all is right with the worldRead more

life is filled with beauty and tragedy touching upon both joy and pain the full range of emotions and the gamut of experiences are spread on the table before us we sample some of this taste a little of that it’s all a part of our human scene as we play on a spinning orbRead more